Saturday, August 14, 2010

-nails in the fence-

Beautiful reminder
For me its like alarm that wakes me n show friends that love me so n I love them

Make sure you
read all the way down to the last sentence.

(Most importantly the last sentence)


There was once
a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day
the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next
few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily
gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.

He told his
father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his
temper.

The days
passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.


The father
took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will
never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Remember that friends are very rare jewels indeed.
They make you smile and encourage you to succeed; They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open
their hearts to us.

It's National
Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care.. Send this to everyone you consider a
FRIEND, even if it means sending it
back to the person who sent it to you! If it comes back to you,
you will then know you have a circle of
friends.

YOU
ARE MY FRIEND AND I AM HONORED, BLESSED n SO LUCKY

sometime we already know important things but we just never aware we should apply them
im paying a lot for this lesson..but its ok
as long as we live we should learn to be better and better person to have meaningful and happy life
jangan anggap marah adalah pilihan bahkan jangan pernah terfikir ada hal you call it
mad and anger...bertahanlah untuk sesuatu yang you believe it could turn out beautiful
---bersabarlah---sabar---sabar---

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